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Sunday, 08 May 2011
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Love? What's the big deal with it?
I have found myself asking this question a lot recently. So what is love? When I say love I mean to be in love not the love you have for a family memeber or friend. After all it is one of the only things that everyone in this world wants. If you think about it, it's just a feeling of being happy. Can this one single feeling really be that amazing? People say everyday that love is over rated and not worth it. But surly if people are willing to die for this feeling then it must be something special right? The world's population is just over 7 billion so what are the chances you will really find your true love just living down your street? Or around the corner? Or in fact the same country as you. Are people just settling down for what they think is love but really isn't?
I think recently I have started to question love alot more. Right now I think I'm still heartbroken. I'm kind of still trying to piece everything together in my head and see the light at the end of the tunnel. Friends I know that are in relationships all reply with the same respond "when you find true love you will know". How will I know? Will I receive a personal card from god congratulating me on finding something that most people never do in their lives?
Or in fact is love non existent and just some fairytale story that we all believe will happen to us one day as soon as our prince charming comes along?
All joking a side though I think you know you love someone when you can put your own happiness a side if it means the person you love will be happy/happier. To be able to be selfless is to truly love someone.
Well that is my opinion anyway what would you say was true love?
Friday, 06 May 2011
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Life goes on.
Okay let's see if I remember how to do this........
I haven't written a blog for over a year now, alot of you that I'm close to will know the reasons why. And for everyone else I hope you can try to understand why I may not have wanted my life published all over the internet. Alot of you will notice past blogs have been deleted too that's all for the same reason as well.
So I guess a lot can happen in year. I will try and get around to writing on everyone's pages and catching up. I have tried in the past to get back and write again but things didn't really go to plan.
EMMMM my life? The biggest news is that we have another addition to the family..... my beautiful nephew, Arin. He is now nearly 7 months old and trust me he is going to be a charmer when he is older (obviously like everyone else in the family
). He is the most amazing and cutest little boy ever. I will update my pictures soon on this too.
I now offically have a degree in Fashion and Textiles so I'm thinking the past 20 years or so in school have been worth it all.
I will be remaining in UK now. No plans of move back to USA or in fact anywhere right now.
I'm single now too. I've learnt the hard way that it's better to be on my own than with the wrong person. I'm still holding on for my prince charming though and I've kissed too many ugly frogs so I need him to hurry up now.
Alot has happened in the last year and I will catch you all up with it all as time goes on.
Tuesday, 08 September 2009
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Is Being A Prostitution Really That Confusing???!!.........
I seen this picture on the internet and I can't help but wonder how many people actually ask the guards if they are prostitutions or not?
Sunday, 06 September 2009
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A dress I made in 10 minutes.
Says it in the title really.
This dress is a sample dress - I started with 1 metre of white fabric and I cut it into 2 pieces, front and back. I put into a rough pattern then put the darts in and sewed the sides together. It is a strapless dress, my sister just had a bra on in the picture. The final dress isn't finshed yet. I have only cut the patterns out for it so far.I will post pictures once I finsh the finally dress lol.
Monday, 31 August 2009
Thursday, 13 August 2009
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Caption this......
I found this on my friend's facebook. Yes I have creepy friends who must be buying their condoms online. I really hope he didn't try to get it for least.
Wednesday, 12 August 2009
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Types of Misters to stay with.
So this is the response blog to Types of Misters to stay away from.
Instead of a list of misters to stay with, this is a list of types of men all women should keep in their lives.1. Mr best friend
He is always there no matter whatever kind of shit is going on in your life. He doesn't necessarily have to be someone you have a crush on or even find attractive. You talk to him about all your boyfriend problems and is always a great shoulder to cry on, You have probably never really noticed him but maybe you will now.
Be aware.... never turn Mr best friend into your boyfriend without seriously thinking about it. If it doesn't work out things will never be the same between you two.2. Mr polite
He always opens doors for you, never swears/farts or burps in front of you, everytime he meets your dad he shakes his hands and always compliments your mother's cooking. Please and thank you are his favorite sayings.
Gentlemen are a dying breed - Keep him in your life.3. Mr older brother- but really your brother.
Normally not your actually brother but more of a friend who protects and looks after you like he is your older brother. When guys treat you like shit he just asks "what's his name?" and that he will deal with it. He can sometimes annoys the fuck out of you, and act mean to you sometimes but you know he doesn't really mean it.
An older brother figure is always a great to have in your life.4. Mr Sex Buddy
Be VERY careful!!!! If it's no strings attached sex you want he is a plus in your life if that's what you are looking for. If you're secretly craving a relationship you need to stay away from him because you will fall for him and you will end up hurt.
Sex buddies are only good if it's just sex.5. Mr actually has a future.
So he might have a shit job when you first meet him but you need to see past that. No one just lands their dream job on their first job interview they go to. You need to keep him in your life because how I figure it is if he will put up with a shitty job, he will more than likely put up with our shit too.
Stay away from Mr likes having a shit job- you need to take time to find out which of the 2 he is.6. Mr perfectly imperfect.
He is more than likely not going to appear on any of my lists but going to be a mixture of a little bit of everything. The most important thing to remember is it doesn't matter what he might behaves like sometimes all that matters is he loves, cares and respects you how you deserve to be. I have managed to find someone who I love more than anything in this world. He isn't perfect, he is actually far from it but I love him for him and that's all I care about.
No one is perfect, no one will ever be perfect but that's the beauty of the world.
Tuesday, 11 August 2009
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Types of Misters to stay away from.
My friend asked me today for some advice on who to and who to not date?. I know first hand it is hard to find someone special. So I tried to help her as much as I could.
Here is 10 types of men ALL women should stay away from………
1. Mr complainers
Nothing will ever be good enough for this man, you’ll always be too loud, too quiet, too smart, too stupid, too happy, too sad …..
Avoid him like you would the plague, you’ll never be good enough for him and he’ll just kill your self esteem.
2. Mr ‘Damaged’
Who don’t want to be fixed. On your first date he’ll announce that he is not over his ex. All you will hear is she did this, she was like this, how they met, how they broke up, blah, blah, blah and every so often he will ask for your opinion. But you just think to yourself that you haven’t been on a date for a long time now and maybe all he needs is time. Then on your tenth date, you’ll realise that he isn’t just broken hearted; he enjoys it, so you have just been wasting your time even trying.
3. Mr loves sports more then you
Most guys will put a sport first at some point, but you know that he’ll be there for you if you need him. Guys who love sports too much, you know the kind that wear their teams jersey all day and night long even if you are going to a formal family dinner he will still have it on. He won’t care if the house is on fire or even if you’re on fire, all he wants is another beer and some “peace” to watch the game.
4. Mr analyse you
He thinks he’s Freud, and analyses your every move, from the flavour of crisp you choose to what you watch on TV. He’ll sit with a smug smile, convinced that by labelling you he’ll be keeping you hooked. Soon he’ll be trying to “fix” you with his weird theories….bin him now.
5. Mr Pretty-Pretty
They will just leave you feeling ugly while he spends his time fixing his hair and acting more beautiful and delicate then you. When he spends more time getting ready than you then you need to find a more masculine man, and leave him preening himself.
6. Mr. Im-Better-Then-Everyone
He won’t do you any favours either. He’ll never smile, or be happy for you, and if you spend long enough with him you’ll start to despise the human race too. Leave him to feel smugly better than anyone.
7. Mr Paranoid
Something gave them the green eyed monster, and it’s just never gone away. He’ll presume your cheating, hate anything that makes you look good and constantly accuse you of flirting with others. He won’t be happy until he’s the only person in your life.
8. Mr won’t grown up
These men refuse to get a job, blame everyone else for their laziness and unhappiness, and are constantly outraged that they are not respected. If he hasn’t grown up by now, chances are he’ll never take any responsibility, so stay well clear.
9. Mr Cheaters
Enough said.
10. Mr Cruel
The kind of man who gets off from the power of refusing to take you somewhere, or spend money on you, or any type of power at all. He won’t get better, and it’s not because he loves you. Walk away, as fast as you can.
But not all men are like this. There is such a thing as Mr perfect but he is normally married or gay. lol.
I did a response blog too - Types of Misters to stay with.
Monday, 10 August 2009
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You Know You're Indian .......
* When you tell your parents you got 90%, and they ask you what happened to the other ten percent.
* There is a sale on any item, you buy 100 of them.
* You never buy bin bags, but use your saved grocery bags for it.
* You put your clothes in suitcases instead of wardrobes.
* You are ALWAYS taking off and putting on your shoes wherever you go.
* Your mother has a minor disagreement with her sister and doesn't talk to her for ten years.
* You call an older person you've never met before "uncle".
* You hide everything from your parents.
* Your mother does everything for you if you are male.
* You do all the housework and cooking if you are female.
* You have a 40 lb. bag of rice in your pantry.
* Everyone is a family friend.
* You HAVE TO study law, medicine or engineering at university to be a 'successful man'.
* You went to a university as close to your family as possible.
* yet you still came back home to live with your parents after you had finished.
* Your parents have trouble paying attention to "minor" items like their kids' social lives, but they know the exact number of the checks in their checkbook.
* Your best friend got married at the age of 17.
* You use chilli sauce instead of tomato ketchup.
* You fight over who pays the dinner bill.
* You make a big deal if you see a girl and guy talking.
* Your parents don't realize phone connections to foreign countries have improved in the last two decades, and still scream at the top of their lungs when making foreign calls.
* You don't use measuring cups when cooking.
* You always say "open the light" instead of "turn the light on".
* You're walking out of customs with your trolley at the airport and you see all twenty-five members of your family who have come to pick you up.
* Your parents tell you not to care what your friends think, but they won't let you do certain things because of what the other "Uncles and Aunties" will think.
* You go back to your parents' country and people treat you like a member of the royal family.
* You ask your dad a simple question and he tells you story of how he had to walk miles barefoot just to get to school.
* When you were little you always wondered why your English friends waited until after breakfast to brush their teeth when you did it first thing in the morning.
* To your English friends, oil is used purely for cooking and not as a grooming aid.
* You talk for an hour at the front door when leaving someone's house.
* Your parents have nicknames but only because people they work with just stop when trying to read their names
* You have annoying nicknames.
* It's embarrassing if your wedding has less than 600 people.
* All your Tupperware is stained with food color.
* You have drinking glasses made of steel.
* Your parents call all your friends "Beta" whether they are Indian or not.
* Your mother measures wealth in gold and diamonds.
* Your parents drink 3 cups of tea a day.
* Your parents compare you to all of you friends.
* At least once a week your mom says, "I want to go to India ".
* No one ever seems to call ahead of time to say they are coming over for a visit.
* Your parents worry what other people will think if you're not going to be a doctor/ engineer/lawyer.
* You're parent's always say while shopping abroad, "It's cheaper in India".
* everytime you do something wrong your parents threaten to send you to India when they cant afford it.
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Reasons why everyone should have a pet.
This is my babycats, Buster. I love him so much.I think everyone in the world should experience the love of having a pet. I have had Buster since he was 1 month old and I fell in love with him. I am 22 and before Buster came along, I never knew what it was like to love an animal.
So here are some reason I think having a pet is so great.
* Buster doesn't care what I look like. I could put on 10 pounds or lose 10 pounds and he would still look at me the same.
* Buster is a great listener. I always talk to him about my troubles and I know he won't judge me or have something cocky to say about it.
* Buster give me the best cuddles plus he doesn't take up too much room in my bed or rob the sheets unlike Randall, above with Buster.
* Buster never forces me to chyll out with his friends that they are just douches most of the time.
* Buster knows when it's playtime and when it's not. I never have to use the "I have a headache" excuse with him.
* Buster is way better to chyll out with than people are sometimes.
* Buster doesn't need expensive toys like ps3, xbox, cars or phones. A simple dollar tree ball will do the trick for him.
* Buster is quiet most of the time anyways.
* Buster is such a pretty kitty. lol.
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